This is a proposal that brings up the significance of the good and bad experiences, the learned mechanics, the pleasant moments saved in the memory. After youth, and for most of our lives, human beings live out of our memories; the older we get, the more we remember, and the more delight we take in our good memories. It is a way of escaping and, sometimes, of surviving.
They say that dreams are a congestion of the imagination overburdened by the unsaid words, the acts not performed, the hate or love afecctions that we do not and will never express, and also by the not given kisses.
(Van den Borken)